Humurous letter Dr. Heart

Dr. Heart, I’m a confused girl. I’m 21 years old. I’m studying medicine. In my first class I met a Spanish guy. I don’t know what happened but I fell in love with him. In the second class, he invited me to his apartment. I was nervous. When I arrived he cooked me risotto. It was a good meal. In this evening, we enjoyed a lot. Then, he invited me again. In this time, he kissed me. I don’t know but I knew that he was the man of my life.

Six months later, I still with him but he doesn’t have a relationship with me because he doesn’t believe in that. I don’t care because actually is normal to have an open relationships. For this reason, we aren’t together in class, because we don’t mix the personal relationships with the professional ones. I guess so. Now, I’m confused because he will go back to Spain in two months. Is our relationship strong enough?

Dr. Heart: Dear confused girl. I think that it isn’t normal to have free relationships. Middle terms don’t work, for this reason, you are or you aren’t. You have only these options. If you want to create a stable relationship you have to build confidence and respect with your partner because you don’t believe in open relationships. You don’t have to lose your identify and limits for another person. Think about what do you want and what don’t you want. Your relationship needs more roots and firmness. Is this person convenient for you?

Only you know that. Blessings.